Wednesday, 25 May 2011

Allosgabriel: What Is Love

Allosgabriel: What Is Love: "I am writting on this topic because of how people misinterperete love. A friend of mine on Facebook one's ask if somebody could love u becau..."

What Is Love

I am writting on this topic because of how people misinterperete love. A friend of mine on Facebook one's ask if somebody could love u because of sex?
I heard many people misenterpereting love in the name of sex.
So I decided to define what love really meant.

What is love? It is one of the
most difficult questions for the
mankind. Centuries have passed
by, relationships have bloomed
and so has love. But no one can
give the proper definition of love.
To some Love is friendship set on
fire for others Maybe love is like
luck. You have to go all the way
to find it. No matter how you
define it or feel it, love is the
eternal truth in the history of
Love is patient, love is kind. It has
no envy, nor it boasts itself and it
is never proud. It rejoices over
the evil and is the truth seeker.
Love protects; preserves and
hopes for the positive aspect of
life. Always stand steadfast in
love, not fall into it. It is like the
dream of your matter of affection
coming true. Love can occur
between two or more
individuals. It bonds them and
connects them in a unified link of
trust, intimacy and
interdependence. It enhances the
relationship and comforts the
soul. Love should be experienced
and not just felt. The depth of
love can not be measured. Look
at the relationship between a
mother and a child. The mother
loves the child unconditionally
and it can not be measured at all.
A different dimension can be
attained between any
relationships with the magic of
love. Love can be created. You
just need to focus on the
goodness of the other person. If
this can be done easily, then you
can also love easily. And
remember we all have some
positive aspect in us, no matter
how bad our deeds maybe. And
as God said �Love all�
Depending on context, love can
be of different varieties.
Romantic love is a deep, intense
and unending. It shared on a
very intimate and interpersonal
and sexual relationship. The
term Platonic love, familial love
and religious love are also matter
of great affection. It is more of
desire, preference and feelings.
The meaning of love will change
with each different relationship
and depends more on its
concept of depth, versatility, and
complexity. But at times the very
existence of love is questioned.
Some say it is false and
meaningless. It says that it never
exist, because there has been
many instances of hatred and
brutality in relationships. The
history of our world has
witnessed many such events.
There has been hatred between
brothers, parents and children,
sibling rivalry and spouses have
failed each other. Friends have
betrayed each other; the son has
killed his parents for the throne,
the count is endless. Even the
modern generation is also facing
with such dilemmas everyday.
But �love� is not responsible for
that. It is us, the people, who
have forgotten the meaning of
love and have undertaken such
gruesome apathy.
In the past the study of
philosophy and religion has done
many speculations on the
phenomenon of love. But love
has always ruled, in music,
poetry, paintings, sculptor and
literature. Psychology has also
done lot of dissection to the
essence of love, just like what
biology, anthropology and
neuroscience has also done to it.
Psychology portrays love as a
cognitive phenomenon with a
social cause. It is said to have
three components in the book of
psychology: Intimacy,
Commitment, and Passion. Also,
in an ancient proverb love is
defined as a high form of
tolerance. And this view has been
accepted and advocated by both
philosophers and scholars. Love
also includes compatibility. But it
is more of journey to the
unknown when the concept of
compatibility comes into picture.
Maybe the person whom we see
in front of us, may be least
compatible than the person who
is miles away. We might talk to
each other and portray that we
love each other, but practically
we do not end up into any
relationship. Also in compatibility,
the key is to think about the long
term successful relationship, not
a short journey. We need to
understand each other and must
always remember that no body is
Be together, share your joy and
sorrow, understand each other,
provide space to each other, but
always be there for each others
need. And surely love will
blossom to strengthen your
relationship with your matter of