Thursday, 15 December 2011
Not all women are the same. Still, she may give away signals that she likes you or dislike you through her looks, behavior or body language. It is not wrong to say that words and mannerisms of a person can convey a lot about that person. Here are 16 things to watch out to find if she is interested in you.
She likes talking and spending time with you: If a girl likes you she will not refuse an opportunity to see you or talk to you. She always would find an excuse to talk with you or spend time with you. When you talk she listens to you with interest and tries to gather more information about you. If she participates in the conversation, gives long answers and asks you questions in response it is a positive sign. She would gaze at you and smile often when you are with her or lean close when speaking to you. You may even notice that her eyes lit up when she notices you around. On the other hand if he does not like you she may not participate in the conversation or may give clipped responses for your enquiries. If she is looking around while you talk to her shows her lack of interest in you and the fact that she probably wants someone different to talk to.
She gives her Contact Number: If a girl likes you she would trust you enough to pass on her mobile number, private email or chat name without hesitation so that that the two of you could be in touch. She may even allow you to drop you at her doorstep or would invite you in for a coffee. When there are other eligible Guys around you and the girl gives her contact number only to you it is a positive sign that she certainly likes you. Take it as a signal from her and ask her for a date after you have spoke to her over phone one or two times to know her better. When you talk to her on the phone she may start talking immediately without waiting for you to start the conversation. If she is looking for an excuse to hang up then she might not be interested in you. She may even find excuses to talk to you often and may call you without waiting for you to call her if she likes you. She may find excuses for chatting with you for hours together and even discusses her experiences or inner dreams.
She introduces you to her Friends and Family: If a girl likes you she would not have problems with others seeing her with you. She may even introduce you to her friends or family or even brag about you to them. If she likes you she would be honest in her opinions and instead of passing flattering complements may tell you things or habits you need to change in order to be a better person without insulting you.
She touches you often: If the girl touches you often while you are talking or walking together or does not move away when you accidentally brush up against her or intentionally touch her she may like you. However, ifshe isn't touching you it may not mean that she doesn't like you. May be she is too nervous of you to touch you yet. If a girl holds eye contact with you then this is a good sign that she is interested in you. Some girls may even blush when you look at them if they like you.
She mimics you in your Actions: If there is a liking then you may be able to detect signs of mimicking. In fact this is an unconscious thing and indication that she is interested. Some examples for this can be taking a drink together or leaning back against the chair at the same time.
She gets Jealous when she sees you with other Girls: If you are friends with the girl and notice signs of jealousy when you talk with other girls it is a sign that she really likes you and you can try taking your relationship to the next level. She may even try to distract or interrupt you when she sees you with other girls.
She laughs at your Jokes:If a girl likes you she may even laugh or giggle at your normally boring or stupidest of all jokes. If her smile is a fake or polite one or if she frowns and looks away she is not interested in you.
She may even Flirt with you Openly:If a girl likes you she may even flirt with you openly in order to get the message across to you that she is interested in you. There may be seasoned flirts but if flirting is out of character for the girl whom you are trying to know is interested in you then in all probability she likes you. But Beware do not flirt around with other girls when she is around you as she may jump to conclusions and assume that you are not interested in her.
She brags about you: If a girl likes you it is quite natural for her to talk about you to her close friends. Sometimes you may notice her friends teasing her when they spot you or other friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling which may mean that she was telling her friends about you. When you come near to her she might stop talking all of a sudden which can mean that you were the subject of the recently ended conversation.
You may meet her accidentally very often: When a girl likes you she may try to frequent places you go often or find some reason to be in places where you go to so that she would be able to see you. She may even find stupid reasons to talk to you or try to be around you as much as she can.
She is conscious of her looks when you are around: If a girl likes you she tries to be at her best when you are around. She would normally be well groomed and looking beautiful than she looks normally. You may even notice her touching her hair, neck, lips or clothing when she is in front of you.
She may play hard to get: If a woman likes you she may play games with you as she knows that a man would not appreciate anything for longer which may not come to him easily. She may ignore the Guy so that the Guy would chase her as guys like challenges. In fact majority of women like to be a challenge and feel that any male who cannot work hard to get them are not worthy of her.
She is comfortable with you: If a girl feels comfortable and secured in your company in all probability she likes you. If she is feeling threatened or trying to avoid meeting you or spending time with you she may not like you. If she feels comfortable and secured she would be herself around you and without pretences and would be comfortable talking to you about almost anything. She may even not hesitate to ask you out on a date.
She would go out of her way to help you: If a woman likes you she may go out of the way to be helpful to you when you have a problem or when you need help. She always would have a word of encouragement or support when you are feeling. If she comes to know that you are sick she might call you immediately or even visit you because she is concerned about you.
She remembers your special Days: If a girl likes you she would make sure that she remembers your Birthday or may even get you a gift. If she comes to know about an achievement you made she would immediately call you and congratulate you. She may even ask you for a party from you as an excuse to see you. She may even buy you small gifts for no reason at all.
She talks of a Future together: If a girl likes you when she talks about her future she may mention you in it. She may even share her long term dreams or aspirations with you.
All girls consciously or unconsciously send out at least some of the above signs or signals. Look out for mannerisms and body language of the girl to determine the interest level in you. I sincerely hope that this article would be an eye opener to Guys who want to know if the girls are interested in them. Have I left out something? Please feel free to add them through comments.
Location: Lagos, Nigeria
is a young and multi-talented guy, who always likes to be the best of what ever he does, he has passion for his country (Nigeria) he hates tribalism, he is not self centered, hate sentimental. Allos Gabriel finished his first school leaving certificate in 1999/2000 at Roman Catholic Mission primary school, Okene Kogi state. Allos Gabriel who biological name is (Okafor Gabriel Onyebuchi) joined Abdul Aziz Atta Memorial College Okene)A.A.A.M.C.OKENE Kogi State, were he attained his West Africa Examination Certificate(W.A.E.C) in 2006/2007 Allos Gabriel is from Oraifite in Ekwusigo Local Goverment of Anambra State. Allos Gabriel was born in okene kogi state were he spent almost all his life as a student, till late 2007 when he located to Lagos. Allos Gabriel speaks Ebira fruentely and also igbo and yoruba. Allos Gabriel(okafor Gabriel Onyebuchi) get the name Allos Parakletos from his pastor, Chris Oyakhilome the phd of believers loveworld ministry christ embassy, who would most times preach the bible in tranlationg to greek language. Allos Parakletos is a greek definition of another comforter.